As a military member, you are by default a nomad. You’re going to move more times than you really want to. Change is good and it’s important to grow professionally in our careers. Each place we move to I dread the unpacking. So much stuff! In our most recent move, July 2016, we still have boxes packed! Which means nothing in those boxes we’ve needed in the last 11 months.
Sure, there may be some sentimental items in there, but for the most part I’m sure the ‘things’ in there we can afford to throw away or donate. Every now and then I’ll rumble through trying to find something tiny like my tie clip. I was attending a formal event recently and couldn’t find my tie clip. Could I have done without it? Yes. I knew where it was, though so I went digging. The point is the things we think we need are some things we’ll never use.
Image how much easier moving would be if you owned less than you actually purposefully needed. We spent four years at our first assignment. In those four years we still had boxes packed. At least three. During the Summer of 2014 my wife and I took time off work to finally get to the last few boxes unpacked. That morning I made a comment on Facebook, “Now that our last box is unpacked watch us get a new assignment.” Later that day I got an email with notification of a new assignment. Go figure. It was now time to move again. The crazy thing is we could have kept the box packed because for four years in one spot we never needed it opened, which means we could have got rid of everything in them, but instead we insisted on ‘thinking’ we ‘have’ to keep things. Perhaps we have the mentality that if we bought it we need to keep it as long as we can. It might be the case in some instances, but not all.
Think of all the uniforms you have as a military member. Your utility set, your services set and your physical training set. That’s 12 sets of clothes given to you once you start basic training. I never owned 12 shirts at one time in my life. And now I have that plus my normal civilian clothes. Over the years I’ve replaced old uniforms and bought new ones. I recently donated all of my older uniforms that were serviceable for reuse. The others I threw away. My closet got smaller. I did the same with the few civilian clothes I had. I now only have 1 pair of shorts, 1 pair of blue jeans, 2 pairs of cargo pants(my favorite) and 6 shirts, all black. Other than furniture I will be able to fit everything I own in my trunk.
Just a few days ago I saw a moving truck down the street. The next day I saw a curb full of things that I guess the family didn’t need or want to take with them. It was a lot of stuff. We did the same during our first move back on 2014. We left a curbside full of random things that we just didn’t need or wanted to take to our new home.
I’ve come to realize that all that stuff that we think we need is not really necessary after all. It’s okay to live with less especially when you know you’re going to be moving again. For any military member out there, if you dread the move, think about minimalism as a way to make moving simple. I am certain our next move will be a piece of cake.
As a challenge for your next move, if you can’t fit everything that you essentially need in one vehicle, then perhaps you really don’t need it. I know for a fact that for my next move I’ll be able to fit everything I need in the trunk of my Toyota Corolla and that is quite refreshing to know.